a. it's not good for you
b. you would have to hurt someone to get it
c. the answer is no
d. there are rules
e. things just don't work out that way.
f. timing is everything
g. you wouldn't let go
and guess what? sometimes when you can't have what you want it stinks-a lot. and it's really hard to let go. and you still want it even though you can't have it.
here's a few thoughts to help you get through:
Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most. — Unknown
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” – Alexander Graham Bell
Holding on to anything is like holding on to your breath. You will suffocate. The only way to get anything in the physical universe is by letting go of it. Let go and it will be yours forever. – Deepak Chopra